Maximize Your Pleasure and Your Escort’s!
Escorts can get a lot of judgment sometimes, even from their clients. Even though she is a sex worker, it is important for you to respect her, just as you would in a relationship. If you’re a regular, you basically have a relationship, even if it is based through business.
Respecting Your Escort
Do Your Research
Okay, so you’ve picked out an escort to your liking. She’s gorgeous, of course. The perfect one to fill your desires. However, even with an escort, the experience does not start with the bedroom. To get the most out of your relationship with her, do your research first. Find out what she likes, her interests, and other information. These will be great conversation starters to keep your night fluid, and show her that you took your own time and learned about her. She will be impressed by that.
Always Be a Gentlemen
Escorts are people too. They are a special brand of women, ones who dedicated the main portion of their lives to pleasing you, without the bells and whistles of expectations. Treat her like the lady she is.
You Get What You Give
Contrary to popular belief, escorts are not required to share their bed with you, regardless of the money. Escorts base their intimate interests in a client on how they feel the night is going. If you are rude and sloppy, she’s probably not going to take an interest. However, treat her with respect, ask her questions, and get to know her, you may be more likely to get to the physical.
Boundaries Are Important
As with any type of relationship, boundaries are essential. Should you have a time for intimacy, make sure you ask her what her boundaries are. Just as she is not required to sleep with you, she is also entitled to her own limits, regardless of yours. Make sure that both yours and hers are stated clearly and respectfully. Listen to her and repeat back to her, to let her know that you are understanding. This will help develop your relationship.
Instead of focusing on the physical, make sure you have your talking points down. Now, not all conversation can be rehearsed or prepared for, but you can at least have some ideas on where to take the conversation. This is where that research you did comes in handy. Obviously, a profile doesn’t tell you intimate details about a person, but use the information to extend the conversation. If she likes R&B music, ask her what her favorite album is. Always be interested in getting to know more. Smooth, casual conversation will lead her to comfortability. Comfortability builds trust. Trust is essential to the bedroom.
Her Eyes Are Up There
It’s hard, I know. Chances are, when you meet your fantasy girl, she’s going to look gorgeous and a woman right out of your fantasy. As hard as it is, make sure that when you are talking with her, look into her eyes. This should be a no-brainer, but because you are working with someone who is a sex-worker, doesn’t mean this behavior is tolerable. Many escorts will be turned off if they notice you staring at them like a piece of meat. If you have a hard time with this, tune yourself into the words she is saying. In fact, you’ll score double points if you ask her questions about what she’s talking about in between.
She Can Say No, Anytime, Anyplace
If you make it to the bedroom, know in your head that it’s not a done deal. At no time, during the course of the entire experience, is she obligated to sleep with you. Even if you are completely naked, she still has every right to say no. Just as any other woman, if she says no, you stop. Failing to do so will result in serious consequences.
If you take all seven of these steps and apply them when you see your escort, or even a new escort, we guarantee that you will have a fun and healthy time. Ultimately, your escort wants to fulfill your desires and pleasures and have a great time too. As long as you listen, respect, keep your eyes up top, and take an interest, you should be in for smooth sailing and night full of intimacy, in and out of the bedroom. Even though money is involved, treat an escort like a first date, every time.